Monday, August 17, 2015

My Idea of Free Look

Fashion is something that defines a person. Every person has his own concept of fashion. Some keeps themselves updated about latest fashion styles. Some be updated through their fashion ideals. Some love to create their own fashionable looks. Some prefer fashion according to their comforts. In previous times fashion was such a topic that got limited to high society people but with use of multimedia and social sites people have become more fashion conscious. Everyone wishes to be different and have their own free look.

My own concept of free look is very clear. I prefer fashion according to my body type and occasion. Well, in India we also need to add one more filter for free look. It is about the place where you are staying or visiting. Someone might say that occasion and places are two equal filters. But I would say no, it’s not. If you are visiting your relatives than you need to be little bit self-conscious about your clothing style and if you are visiting your friends’ house than you wouldn’t be worrying about the clothing style.

For me free look is get into something that makes you feel comfortable and special. In my wardrobe I have every type of cloth. Whether its sarees, suits, lahengas choli, jeans, tees, shrugs, shorts, skirts or western dresses. As I said one must be ready according to the occasion and environment. I prefer to be in western clothes when I am on a tour but when at relatives I prefer to be in saree or suit. I just love western dresses but for them also I have kept a filter in my mind. I don’t like short, body cone, mini or body fit dresses. I like dresses knee-length or below knee with proper back style and breathing material. Silk is the material I have never liked as I am having average figure and average figure never accepts silk material. May be it might but for me silk is totally no-no-no.

In above collage, one might wonder about my concept of free look but as I said above for me free look means freedom of comfort. Freedom of comfort means if you are wearing mini dress to please your husband but if you are not feeling comfortable in it then you surely gonna look like a disaster. One must go for clothes in which one feels comfortable. One should not blindly follow the fashion sagas. One must go through scanning of their own. Will this color suit me or not? Will I look fat? Will these accessories look heavy or proper according to function and clothing? If I am wearing embroidered saree then I prefer to wear light jewellery. The same thing goes with printed tops, tunics and dresses. If it’s plain then I prefer to wear some heavy accessories according to occasion.

Hope my concept of free look goes well with you, too. You, too might end up thinking like me. Free look for me is freedom of comfort. Freedom of wearing what you like but keeping the occasion and place in mind.   One more thing to remember 'Never wear to please #WearToExpress. 

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My Sister, My darling.

Sisters are angels sent by God on this earth, who make it possible for us to survive and live happily. I am blessed with brother and sister. My sister is five years elder to me. She is married in Delhi. My brother is 2.5 years younger than me but it’s a different thing that he looks elder then me due to his height. ;) ;) Trio of us have shared special bond since childhood. Though we are departed now due to marriages, we stay in touch using social media.

My sister being eldest among us was little bit sincere but whenever it came naughty acts, blunder and chaotic missions, she would join us. It’s a different thing that whenever mummy caught us, she would wear that ‘good girl’s’ mask and my brother and I would bear mummy’s anger. Later on she would come and give us chocolates and ice-creams to cool our anger.

Being an elder sister, she always had feeling of possessiveness for us. Whenever anyone tried to mess with me or my brother, she would stand like a rock and protect us. I never liked act of kneading dough as the sticky dough on hands made me feel terrible. My mummy would ask me to knead dough as it was necessary for me to learn kitchen related works. I would cry a lot to get freedom from this task but she would be firm. At that time my darling sister would come to my rescue and would take away the task from my hands and would tell mummy,” let it be mummy, she’s a kid.” Though I was studying in 10th then. :P :P There is one more incident which made me believe that whatever may happen, wherever we be in future our relations would be the similar one. I passed exams of 12th standard and went to school with my sister to get hard copy of my mark sheet. Few of my friends asked my percentage and they were totally shocked when I told them my percentage because I was the most mischievous student of my class and that’s why none of them expected me to perform so well in exams. When I was busy in acquiring my mark sheet at that time few of them made rude remarks about me and my results. I was unaware of this fact but my sister heard them as none of them knew them. She lost her temper and started rebuking them. All of them got shocked with this sudden attack. I, too was stunned by this chaos and when I came to know the reality, I hugged my sister tightly and kissed on her cheek and shouted #MySiblingRocks

Today when we are away from each other, I cherish all those moments we spent together. After marriages, we have decided that we would try our best to spend our time at parents’ home together. Those moments would never come back but we would recreate them.